tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post1828614506316573048..comments2023-11-05T07:51:33.598-05:00Comments on Sell Crazy Someplace Else: Couch TimeJendeishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11960909534349311223noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-39117499146739825632009-03-10T10:01:00.000-04:002009-03-10T10:01:00.000-04:00Its not lying- it's fear. Fear of being hurt. Yo...Its not lying- it's fear. Fear of being hurt. You hide your emotions so that you will be loved, but in fact need to loveyourself more... to believe that you are loved unconditionally. But don't blame yourself for the "three card monte"- I think sometimes you need to in order to protect yourself. But now is the time to be honest. You owe yourself and JD that before you think of other measures.<BR/><BR/>And I don't think this is about "overanalysizing." You are in an extremely difficult marriage wherein infertility is the least of your problems. <BR/><BR/>BFFAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-14610291599422043742009-03-10T09:50:00.000-04:002009-03-10T09:50:00.000-04:00If you want my opinion, I don't think you're a lia...If you want my opinion, I don't think you're a liar. Everything you write seems very honest.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you through all thisMeghanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12825803955705904174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-30524530422969994062009-03-10T05:16:00.000-04:002009-03-10T05:16:00.000-04:00With you all the way Jen while you figure this sit...With you all the way Jen while you figure this situation out. Hang in there.<BR/><BR/>xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-1552494353145455082009-03-10T01:12:00.000-04:002009-03-10T01:12:00.000-04:00This is the problem with frickin infertility. Most...This is the problem with frickin infertility. Most people plan to have babies. Then they have babies. Then they're occupied, for the foreseeable future, with caring for babies. From conception to college they just don't have that much time to think, with their stupid show-offy baby brains.<BR/><BR/>Infertile people get WAY too much thinking time. They are forced to make decisions and analyze their relationship in a way neither Mother Nature or even Freud ever intended. <BR/><BR/>Honestly, I think most coupled-up people have at least a 5% get-me-outa-here drive. I certainly do. It lives with me, muttering and tempting, sometimes screwing with my self-esteem, sometimes making considerable sense. <BR/><BR/>You are not a liar. You are an exceedingly honest person struggling with the ramifications of life's slings and arrows. <BR/><BR/>I hope you work it out a bit, but please don't feel you need to work it out entirely. For a start, that would just be boring. For a second, it would remove on of life's great pleasures — the bit where you get to go, "Oh, what the hell? Let's do it!" <BR/><BR/>I don't know if this even makes sense to your predicament. If it doesn't, please instead accept this sloppy smooch on the cheek.<BR/><BR/>*SMOOCH*<BR/><BR/>You rock.Miss Schlegelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317481231347306500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-52916348728491986292009-03-09T18:35:00.000-04:002009-03-09T18:35:00.000-04:00*hugs**hugs*Jessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-81239947334626538002009-03-09T17:13:00.000-04:002009-03-09T17:13:00.000-04:00Abiding with you, Jendeis, as you figure all this ...Abiding with you, Jendeis, as you figure all this stuff out.annacyclopediahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461037288546901657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-86199427983356933382009-03-09T17:11:00.000-04:002009-03-09T17:11:00.000-04:00This is cleverly written. I always enjoy your craz...This is cleverly written. I always enjoy your crazily funny, yet whackadoo posts. I'm thinking about you, chica.Searching for Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17842793601509147918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-34685398081818146812009-03-09T15:12:00.000-04:002009-03-09T15:12:00.000-04:00You have my thoughtsYou have my thoughtsAwkwardMomentshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854477296635420810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-7158037978615866732009-03-09T14:48:00.000-04:002009-03-09T14:48:00.000-04:00Hang in there. Always thinking of you. :-)Hang in there. Always thinking of you. :-)Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11037485291342703216noreply@blogger.com