tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post3251453288309906493..comments2023-11-05T07:51:33.598-05:00Comments on Sell Crazy Someplace Else: Deep Thoughts - The James Joyce VersionJendeishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11960909534349311223noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-55688477912169217682009-03-25T20:25:00.000-04:002009-03-25T20:25:00.000-04:00Gold star for me too! WOOHOO! (sorry I haven't bee...Gold star for me too! WOOHOO! (sorry I haven't been around much...work crap).<BR/><BR/>I know with DH that sometimes he does need a list: We keep 2 on our fridge...1 says things that always need to be done, and the other says specific projects that we have going on.<BR/><BR/>I really wish I knew why men were like this, just so I can make sure if I have a son he isn't. *hugs*Jessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-37297605607837755452009-03-24T05:06:00.000-04:002009-03-24T05:06:00.000-04:00I find that lists, with very specific instructions...I find that lists, with very specific instructions work well for the men... not perfect.. Dh still finds a way to screw that up. But, at least 70% of the work gets done and the x box gets turned off for a few hours. Sigh.... Wouldn't it be nice if they weren't all the same? <BR/><BR/>You saw Hair? Jealous! I have never seen an un-snipped wee wee... I totally would have been looking also! <BR/>We went into the city to see West Side Story this past Saturday. Were we in Manhattan together? :) It was awesome. The reviews didn't do it justice. I just wish I spoke a bit more spanish to understand it.Triciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17714298937388763348noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-62976560551528789852009-03-23T22:48:00.000-04:002009-03-23T22:48:00.000-04:00Right after we "reconciled" late last summer, my h...Right after we "reconciled" late last summer, my husband was all up on the housework / house maintenance issues I'd been griping about (some since we moved in together YEARS before). But as the months wore on so did his enthusiasm and resolve. Ironically, as of November he was off the pain killers completely and back to being utterly unmotivated. We got in a fight and he turned around, sort of. He did pretty good for a bit and then began to taper on down to his previously established lazy plateau again. (Can it be a "plateau" if it is below sea level?) Recently, February maybe, we got into a BIG fight over this topic. However, after we both calmed down, we discussed it civilly. And although he will probably never again attain the overachievement he was last August, he's been very helpful - proactively so, even. <BR/><BR/>I swear to you, for the fist 7 years we were together my husband was the absolute laziest live-in male companion of any person I knew. I even, at times, wondered why I would marry such a selfish slob. But he has gotten soooo much better the last 9 months. It is two steps forward, one step back. But it IS forward progress. He's acting more and more like a real adult man all the time. Yes indeed, if it was possible for my husband, it may be possible for yours too. <BR/><BR/>(No promises, warranties or refunds though.)Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07923049494756911105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-11223347964972724432009-03-23T19:18:00.000-04:002009-03-23T19:18:00.000-04:00Why, oh why must we lead the men i our lives??? My...Why, oh why must we lead the men i our lives??? My husband was at home all weekend a few weeks ago...and I WAITED to see if he would take out the trash. (I worked all weekend). DID HE??? NO!!!! He just started piling next to the can. ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <BR/>Good luck girl!ME!https://www.blogger.com/profile/04165329812645814943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-45344595499053716062009-03-23T19:17:00.000-04:002009-03-23T19:17:00.000-04:00Emotional freak-outs aside, I am glad you were abl...Emotional freak-outs aside, I am glad you were able to be honest. Honesty is crucial in a marriage; the key is learning how to do it in a loving way. I still struggle with that one!<BR/><BR/>Thanks for your continued support on my blog. It means more than you will ever know.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00671922064140460790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-53978832036680517522009-03-23T18:21:00.000-04:002009-03-23T18:21:00.000-04:00Uh. Not that you probably wanted to know that. Sor...Uh. Not that you probably wanted to know that. Sorry! My tmi filter is broken!Iohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00918928563224342054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-20747131209944300012009-03-23T18:20:00.000-04:002009-03-23T18:20:00.000-04:00Hmmm. Maybe I need these pills of which you speak ...Hmmm. Maybe I need these pills of which you speak so I stop getting so angry and telling A "get a goddamn job" in response to everything he says.<BR/>I have dated (er, ok, dated and/or slept with) a couple guys that were uncircumcised. It was weird at first, but I think I actually prefer it.Iohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00918928563224342054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-66106796108845108652009-03-23T16:02:00.000-04:002009-03-23T16:02:00.000-04:00Yay, I get a gold star!Speaking of 'uncirc'd you-k...Yay, I get a gold star!Speaking of 'uncirc'd you-know-whats,' my mom told me something strange the other day. My 20ish year old twin cousins were born at home. My aunt just had freakishly fast labor and couldn't make it out of the house. Anyhow, we were talking about that and my mom said, "that is why they weren't circumcised." Ewwww, too much information. Now I will never look at them the same. Plus I didn't understand why they couldn't be taken to the doctor after the fact. Weird.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2598397386529574655.post-41917468020383344532009-03-23T12:13:00.000-04:002009-03-23T12:13:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ms. Perkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06923832430040384294noreply@blogger.com